Will she be able to do this after surgery? |
It's amazing how time flies. Glancing at my blog and realizing it's been 2 years since I last wrote is another reminder of that.
It's also a reminder of how "normal" life has become. And, maybe, an indication of how crazy busy it can be, also.
Tomorrow Melody goes in for a rather large surgery. Tomorrow life will be anything but "normal" and the recovery from the surgery is predicted to be long and will definitely include new routines.
We have known for some time that Melody has scoliosis. Her doctors have been watching it and we have seen the degree of curve increase fairly rapidly over the past couple years. They've mentioned a back brace "24/7 until she is 16!" We were surprised, however, when last fall her doctor said he thought the scoliosis was being aggravated by her hip displacement. The orthopedic surgeon agreed and we found ourselves talking surgery.
This is a departure from what we had been told about spina bifida and hips. Most often the hips are simply left out of place, especially if the person isn't likely to walk anyway. Surgery tends to be futile as the hips don't stay without the muscle structure to keep them there.
They don't do this surgery after age 8, and since Melody is currently 8, time became a factor.
So... here we are in January headed to surgery. The surgeon plans to create hip sockets and place both hips in a more typical position, straighten a shin bone, and release a tendon that is preventing her from standing erect. This is a lot, but since recovery is 6 weeks in a spica cast plus physical therapy, the theory is to do one comprehensive surgery and recover once rather than many small surgeries with multiple recoveries.
So, as we go into surgery, here is a list of our hopes and prayers:
* After surgery we would see a great improvement in Melody's scoliosis
* After surgery Melody will be able to walk with less bracing than she currently uses
* No complications during surgery
* Pain levels would be manageable
* Wisdom in navigating 6 weeks in a spica cast
* Peace for Mom and Dad, especially during surgery.
We can totally relate to the "normal" concept. With life and its busyness and routine you find These reality check moments snapping you back into it. We love you guys so much. Prayers will start this evening and continue into tomorrow. May our Heavenly father's Grace and peace rest upon you Kevin and the rest of the kiddos, and may He prepare Melody's heart and ease her mind over any anxiety as well.
ReplyDeleteSo grateful for a list of things to pray for from you. We are on it!!! Let me know how I can be helpful. Thinking about u all this morning and praying!! I hope all are blown away with success in this surgery and recovery that can only be orchestrated by the Creator, God ❤️
ReplyDeleteThat’s from Mandy Adcock. I’m figuring this blog thing out. 😂😜
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